Compassion Fatigue and Burnout: What They Are and How to Overcome Them

Feeling exhausted, emotionally drained, or like you just don’t care anymore? These are signs you might be experiencing burnout or compassion fatigue. But what exactly do they feel like? How can you tell the difference between them? And most importantly, what can you do to prevent or recover from them?

With treatments like Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), burnout and compassion fatigue can both become less overwhelming and easily coped with.

What Does Burnout Feel Like?

Burnout isn’t just about being tired—it’s a state of complete emotional, mental, and physical exhaustion caused by prolonged stress. It often develops gradually, making it difficult to recognize until it has already taken a toll.

Here are some signs you may have burnout:

  • Feeling emotionally numb or indifferent
  • Struggling to stay motivated, even for things you once loved
  • Constant exhaustion
  • Feeling frustrated or resentful
  • Decreased performance and productivity
  • Frequent headaches, digestive issues, or trouble sleeping

Many people don’t realize they’re burned out until they’re already deep in it. Especially in intense work or school environments recognizing the early signs can help you take action before it gets worse and impacts performance.

Workplace Burnout

Burnout is especially common in high-stress work environments where employees face heavy workloads, unrealistic expectations, and limited control over their schedules. While burnout can happen in any job, it is particularly widespread in professions that involve high emotional labor, such as healthcare, education, social work, and therapy.

A main cause of professional burnout is workload and responsibility. As Dr. Jordan Kugler emphasizes in a training on Using ACT Techniques to Address Burnout, “Another key factor in increasing burnout was the sense of job control. How much freedom do you have? Folks with lower autonomy who viewed themselves or at least self-reported not having a lot of influence in their job had higher rates of burnout.”

Burnout isn’t just about working long hours—it’s about feeling powerless over your workload, schedule, and decision-making. When employees lack autonomy and feel like they have no control over their work, stress levels rise, and burnout becomes more likely.

Compassion Fatigue vs. Burnout: What’s the Difference?

Burnout is the result of prolonged stress from work, responsibilities, or overwhelming expectations. It builds up over time and affects motivation, performance, and overall well-being. In comparison, compassion fatigue is a specific form of burnout that occurs when exposed to other people’s problems for extended periods. Compassion fatigue is becoming more and more common in healthcare workers, therapists, and caregivers where there is a high emotional toll in their work. 

What Is Compassion Fatigue?

Best described by UCEBT therapist Dr. Jordan Kugler, “”Compassion fatigue results from maybe feeling too frequently, right? Feeling with or for coming into contact with emotions, having your own kind of emotions rise and fall too frequently to the point where you have to depersonalize or kind of step away, numb yourself.” Compassion fatigue occurs when caring for others becomes emotionally overwhelming. According to the American Psychological Association (APA), compassion fatigue can arise when caregivers take on the suffering of those they help, particularly in professions where exposure to trauma is frequent. You might feel:

  • Emotionally drained and unable to empathize
  • Irritable or impatient with people you usually care about
  • A deep sense of sadness, frustration, or helplessness
  • Like you need to “shut down” emotionally to cope

While burnout is often caused by work overload, compassion fatigue comes from emotional overexposure to suffering. Even if you may not be in an emotionally tolling work environment, compassion fatigue can stem from personal relationships too if the people around you are struggling.

How to Fight Compassion Fatigue

If you feel like you’re carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders, it’s time to take steps to care for yourself:

  • Set emotional boundaries. It’s okay to care for others, but don’t neglect yourself in the process.
  • Seek support. Talk to a friend, mentor, or therapist about what you’re going through.
  • Engage in restorative activities. Reading, exercising, or spending time in nature can help you recharge.
  • Practice self-compassion. Not only does it make sense that compassion fatigue is happening, but it also makes sense to prioritize your own well-being. After all, you won’t be as effective in caring for others if you’re experiencing compassion fatigue.

Strategies for Preventing Burnout

Burnout doesn’t happen overnight, and neither does recovery. Preventing it requires intentional self-care and maintaining a healthy work-life balance. Here are some evidence-based strategies to protect yourself:

1. Manage Your Workload

Too much responsibility with too little support is a major cause of burnout. If possible, delegate tasks, say no when necessary, and create realistic expectations for yourself.

2. Increase Your Sense of Control

Feeling powerless in your job or personal life can contribute to burnout. Find areas where you can make decisions, whether it’s setting boundaries with work hours or structuring your day in a way that feels manageable.

3. Seek Support from Others

Having a friend, mentor, or supervisor to check in with can make a huge difference. If you work in a high-stress field, regular peer support groups or supervision meetings can provide a much-needed outlet.

4. Take Breaks

Taking short breaks throughout the day can help reset your mind. Even stepping outside for five minutes, stretching, or doing a quick breathing exercise can prevent stress from building up.

5. Practice Self-Compassion

If you’re a high achiever or a perfectionist, you may push yourself too hard. Remind yourself that doing your best  includes self-compassion, acceptance, and balance.

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) Techniques

ACT is another powerful tool for preventing burnout and compassion fatigue. It focuses on building psychological flexibility—the ability to stay present, accept emotions, and take meaningful action.

Especially in Healthcare work, a recent study in PLOS found that “the ACT intervention led to a significant decrease in symptoms of psychological distress and a less pronounced reduction in burnout” among healthcare staff which are often most affected by burnout and compassion fatigue.

What Does a Therapist Do in ACT?

A therapist using ACT will help clients:

  • Identify unhelpful thoughts and learn to detach from them. You are not your thoughts.
  • Practice mindfulness to stay present and reduce stress from thinking about the past or the future.
  • Clarify personal values and take actions that align with them. Work in the direction of what matters to you. 
  • Provide helpful exercises like “dropping anchor” for when you feel overwhelmed.

By seeking out help through ACT, a therapist can help prevent the overwhelming frustration involved with burnout. For more information, feel free to reach out to UCEBT to talk to one of our ACT specialists and get started.

Finding Balance in Your Life

Burnout and compassion fatigue are real, but they don’t have to take over your life. Through recognizing the signs early, setting boundaries, and seeking support, it can be easier to stop the burnout before it starts. Through strategies from ACT, you can protect your energy, maintain emotional balance, and continue doing the work or caregiving you love without losing yourself in the process.

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